Soldiers like to discount all the encounters they had or minimize the experience by saying it was just sex. Then we get our feelings hurt and all bent out of shape if we hear about our girlfriend sleeping with another guy. She had urges too while she waited for you. She was told stories by her friends and family about what you might be doing.

I don’t know how you’re going to handle what you’ve heard once you get back home. Maybe the relationship is over but what you do next is most important now. Freaking out / going off/ losing your cool or getting violent is not the way to go. If she has been cheating, doing all that crap will only prove to her that she needs to kick you to the curb. If you can’t accept things as they are, be cool and say goodbye.